How to Talk to Your Child About Camp
It’s normal for you and your child to be nervous about camp at first. To help you navigate those first discussions, here are a few points you may want to discuss with him:
He Can Say No
Boys are only enrolled in camp if they agree to come. Period. With no gates and fences, we couldn’t force boys to stay even if we wanted to. Be sure he understands that no one will force him to enter camp against his will, and give him time to think it over.
Camp Isn't Punishment
This isn’t boot camp, with screaming, insults, and humiliating rituals meant to “break the will” of campers. To the contrary, this program is designed to rebuild a boy’s self-confidence and personal strength.
You're Not Giving Up On Him
Your child might initially assume you’re suggesting camp to “ship him off” and get him out of your life. Explain that the goal of camp is to give him a path to succeed at home, and that you’ll stay fully involved throughout the program. Regular family visits and updates are a key part of our process. In fact, we only accept campers whose families commit to this high level of involvement.
Most Boys Love Camp
With outdoor adventures, friends around all the time, and interesting projects to keep a boy engaged, it doesn’t take most boys long to fall in love with camp. Like anywhere else, there will be hard days, but the memories our alumni take with them are overwhelmingly positive.
It's Normal To Have Questions
Explain that no one will rush him into a decision, and he’ll have opportunities to meet a family worker and ask anything he wants to know.
You may find our Facebook page helpful to give a boy an initial feel for camp life. You’ll find photos of campers, updates on the latest adventures, and more. Check it out here:
